Magnetism VS Chasing Clients so they come to you versus you hunting them down.
The right clients make an empowered CHOICE to work with you based on desire and excitement versus you arm twisting them into seeing the value and believing in themselves.
The truth is, women who get BIG results when they invest in a program or coach, are the women who do NOT need arm twisting to pull the trigger.
They are the ones who decided they would benefit from investing in a coach already… and then you, being the magnificent you, attracted them to you. You were an energetic match to one another.
Arm twisting someone to work with you is needy energy based in scarcity.. saying I am not going to be okay unless you sign up.
This energy attracts women also in scarcity. People in scarcity have a hard time investing in their dreams.
Also, we attract prospects who treat us how we tend to (not always) treat other coaches and ourselves.
If you say you are going to do something and always go back on your word with yourself, it is likely you will attract a woman who also says she is going to sign up but then ghosts you. Like attracts like.
If you reach out to a coach and then ghost them, there is a strong chance you will attract the wishy washy on the fence match to that.
If you are not maintaining proper boundaries in your life, it is likely you have attracted clients who do not respect your boundaries in some shape or form. This could look like no showing a call, paying invoice past due date, etc.
If you have a hard time making decisions fast then you will also attract women who can’t decide whether or not to move forward with you.
Our clients and prospective clients are excellent mirrors to both our conscious and unconscious behaviours.
Another example is when you are wanting to sell at the 5 figure mark but you’ve never invested at the 5 figure mark.
𝐒𝐨 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜?
1. Don’t stay in worry energy of what if they don’t buy? Instead, trust who is best suited is on their way and your job is to stay in alignment!
2. Keep shining your light - don’t contract if you are feeling like your confidence is wobbling.
3. Act in a way that you would if all the success was already here. How would she walk, talk, hand shake, posture, eye contact? What kind of presence would she have in a room?
4. Be who you present online in your real life & conversely, be who you are in your real life online!! GENUINE & AUTHENTIC is a must!
5. Allow them to come to you. You are good whether or not they buy and your success, abundance and joy is never dependent on one specific prospect.
NO HUNTING and cold messaging their inboxes!! That is just yucky.
6. Be impeccable with your own word and your own boundaries / standards for how you treat people and yourself.
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