I was talking with my mastermind yesterday and we were talking about FB lives. How we each confided that we ALL have some level of resistance bubble up when it comes time to hit record LIVE!
Here’s the thing, I have been doing live streams since march 2017! You’d think I’d be over the resistance but I am not LOL. You see the majority of those lives (up until February just 2.5 months ago) were always inside my private group. It had 1500 women which is A LOT less than my 5000 friends on my personal page.
So I was talking to my mastermind about my own resistance with FB lives now that they are on my personal. On my personal, more people actually know me personally which means I feel more vulnerable sharing.. almost like if everyone was a stranger it would be a lot easier.
Often it is peoples reaction to who you are now and what you are doing now.. who knew you as 1 other way 10 years ago.
I also shared how I have put a pressure on myself to only hop on a do a LIVE if I feel in “the pocket”. That means, in zone, vibing high and crystal clear on what I am inspired to riff on.
The thing with that expectation, is it shows my audience 1 facet of me (the in the pocket/in the zone facet) versus all the other facets that are different… and also RELATABLE because none of us always feel “on”
So this is what it means to really bring vulnerability back to your business. It means you give yourself
Permission to be seen - REALLY seen for who you are.
You are safe to share things you are navigating through and not always be the voice of wisdom - but the voice of relate-ability… like “ah, she gets me she is going through this too!” kinda vibe.
Sometimes entrepreneurs and mentors feel they have to always be a teacher and sharing a different more personal way would discredit them… but it doesn’t. People want to feel like they know, trust and like you and that is harder if you only present 1 single facet of yourself (the in the zone / pocket facet)
Part of being vulnerable and seen is also no longer edit yourself to make those around you comfortable who are not on same wavelength.
Yes, some (maybe a lot) will unfollow you and that is okay b/c they are not your people. BUT where the magic happens is those people who kinda liked you become magnetized to you more. You being so authentic and real (and relatable) is what tells them, yes I want to/need to work with THAT woman. She gets me.
These pics were taken August 2014 when I just moved out (through choice!) of my brand new spacious 3 bedroom townhouse which I lived in until I was 29.
Anyway, back then I worked in corporate as primary therapist & physiologist and made enough to afford the nice new house. So why did I NOT WANT it?
Why was I willing to “sacrifice” my space and downsize so massively?🤔
You'd think someone entering their 30's would be wanting to upgrade to a bigger & better house🏡, not downsizing to live in a 390 square foot rental from the 1940’s!😵
Well, I had a deep desire to re-sculpt my life in such a powerful way. I wanted to not only be a financially prosperous woman, but also to become an entrepreneur. I desired FREEDOM to work for myself. I also decided I was going to become a millionaire..… so how was I going to get there?
My vision for life was not about looking for a short-term quick fix to feel better (example: upgrade vehicles or house or buy new clothes).
My vision was all about the LONG-TERM and asking myself "what am I willing to do to achieve ALL OF MY DESIRES & have zero regrets?"
For me, I listed to my inner guidance that said step 1 is to become a landlord and rent out your townhouse to start growing your net worth. My inner guidance told me "find the cheapest rental & start making $ on the property you own" so I did.
So when I sold all my things (because my new rental studio only had space for a kitchen table & bed!!) most of the world thought I was nuts🤪. I had people message me asking me "are you okay, what is happening to you?”
It doesn’t help I sustained a traumatic brain injury in 2013 that led some to suspect I really had a problem with decision making.
Most people (not all) could not imagine taking such a sacrifice and living with so little - but for me, I could not imagine living the rest of my life to a lesser degree than I knew was possible for me.
So I lived there, in that TINY shoebox apartment for 2 years.
In that time, despite lack of space, I felt more spacious, inspired and AWAKE than ever before!
During that time, I built and launched my Bodycherish High Vibration Skincare🌿🌸by November 2015. Yes, the company started in that space!!!
During that time, I bought a 2nd property... a luxury high-end condo… and then a 3rd property (one I eventually moved into).
During that time, I also got the inspired idea to become an online mentor & program/course creator.. which lead me to quit my corporate career & launch my new business by March 2017!💗🙌🏻
You see, I grew up EXTREMELY POOR & could have easily been another statistic - but I made a decision to write myself a new story, throw a plot twist and become anything I decided to be💃🏻👊🏻
Flash forward to today, I have 3 rental properties, 3 sets of tenants, 2 separate businesses earning multiple 6 figures and most importantly, the FREEDOM I knew I had to have when I made one of the best decisions of my life (deciding to move into that tiny 390 square foot apartment).
Oh yes, people thought I was crazy for sure!
To me, what would be crazy is STILL slaving away at a job I did not love, that was not my higher calling in life.
To me, what would be crazy is NOT choosing to become prosperous & struggling to make ends meet each month.
To me, what would be crazy is spending all my money for SHORT-TERM rewards versus keeping my eyes on the prize for where I am destined to go in life.
Successful entrepreneurs have 1 think in common. They take BOLD AF action that many are not comfortable taking.
Entrepreneurs often go into debt to build their empires (or live very humbly) in the beginning because they 🔥believe in their dream and the long term vision that lies ahead🔥
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I remember coming home from work feeling exhausted, depleted and wondering if there was something more to life than what I was experiencing.
Part of me even felt guilty for feeling unfulfilled because I had a great paying job (by societal norms) and it took me a lot of university to get. So why couldn’t I just be grateful for it?
The truth is that even though things looked "successful" I was living without any magic or sparkle in my life. I was counting down the minutes just for the weekends - so I could “take the edge off” after a stressful week.
Looking back, I also see i used it to suppress my inner guidance system which kept trying to nudge me awake so that I could “course correct” my life.
I managed to keep my inner guidance system pretty quiet for awhile.
I think that is why a lot of us feel that stir of unease (often labeled as anxiety).
Perhaps it is really just our Soul craving more & causing a bubble up of feelings. to wake us the f*k up!
This is the crossroads in life that we can ignore that feeling and try to shrug it off - drink more wine, scroll through our phones, date the wrong men & continue playing it safe.
You know, keep colouring within the lines and doing all the things the same things our friends and coworkers do.
I mean, we don’t want to cause any ripples in the water now do we?
But for the brave and fierce lightworkers of this world, who are willing to question this off-feeling and dive a little deeper, a shift from deep inside will start to take place.
A desire to experience more out of life. A desire to feel peace, joy, purpose & freedom each day.
To wake up and go to bed at night feeling ease but also excitement for the day ahead.
To no longer feel lost & out of alignment with your true purpose.
So, where do you go from here? How do you heal and step forward into the kind of life / relationship /career you have only dreamed of?
I am here to tell you with 100% certainty that there is a way. I pulled a 180 so hard in my life it is actually astonishing at times.
I believe I have "cracked the code" on how to get there & I know you can get here too by following a strategic sequence of steps offered in Elevate Your Life - and by literally raising your energy to a new set point.
That mixed with mega mindset shifts and changes in perspective will get the ball rolling and you will become the architect of your dream lifestyle.
You will get connected and aligned to your deepest passions and purpose and once there, that is where you will feel true fulfillment.
Now my question for you is, what would you be willing to do in order to experience, within a short period of time the desired life you have been craving & yearning for?
The one, where you walk through life with an unwavering sense of confidence & assurance that you are in alignment with your higher purpose & exactly where you should be.
When you know you are right where you should be, anxiety and angst cannot coexist.
You feel a deep sense of trust & security within your life. Like you are being divinely guided the whole way!
To have that inner voice of angst replaced with a sense of calm & ease. A trust and knowing that you are on the fast track to an extraordinary life.
Feeling inspired & fulfilled is your new normal.
There is so much more to share but I will save that for women interested in taking the next step and learning a bit more:-)
ps. this is the 8th and final season of EYL enrollment which has been offered for over 3 years with phenomenal client results. Check them out here!
Incase you missed the training, here's the replay! This replay will be available to watch for a limited time-- so be sure to select a time to sit back and enjoy😇
What to expect? Here's the time stamps!
0 - 0.47 min -> 7 Phases to Elevate Your Life & Align With Your Higher Calling
0.48 min -> 1 hour and 15 min - Presentation detailing what the new Elevate Your Life Coaching Circle + Program entails
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⚡2020'S REGISTRATION IS ALMOST FULL FOR THIS 8th & FINAL SEASON!!⚡
This offer is now being offered with an INTIMATE LIVE GROUP COACHING CIRCLE!!!
This offering has 3 years & 8 seasons of phenomenal real women results AND, for the very first time ever, I am mentoring each week inside an INTIMATE LIVE GROUP COACHING CIRCLE!!
I have been guided to share this with women who are already successful, by societal norms, but who are NOW READY to find alignment with their own passions/higher calling in life and even start building their own business from it!
WHAT YOU GRADUATE WITH:
You will be placed in a small group of like-minded women for a transformative breakthrough experience with myself & a few other ladies (who will become true soul allies & friends), online each week over 4 months.
WHAT ELEVATE YOUR LIFE COVERS:
**Through this program and mentorship, you will learn first hand how to develop your own transformational program for women (in the event you want to become qualified to work as an online coach in your own unique zone of genius- like many past graduates have!)**
Self-care bonus tutorials teaching: Qi gong, EFT (emotional freedom technique), chakra balancing & pineal gland activation, yoga & kundalini kriyas, angel healing & cord cutting, I ams, mirror work, gratitude, crystal healing & essential oils... just to name a few!
Investment price will be revealed on discovery calls with me - to those truly interested in taking their life to the NEXT LEVEL!
Up to 8 women will be accepted into the new INTIMATE LIVE GROUP COACHING MASTERMIND CIRCLE this year. This ensures no more than 4 women per small group coaching circle.
REGISTRATION END DATES:
Masterclass Circle #1: NOW FULL
Masterclass Circle #2: March 27th (closes)
After that, Elevate Your Life, will be closed (as I transition into Advanced Leadership Mentoring for Full-Time Entrepreneurs & Coaches).
DATES OF THE GROUP COACHING CALL CIRCLES:
Masterclass Circle 1: NOW FULL
Masterclass Circle 2: April to August (approx)
HOW TO ENROL:
This offering is by application only - via a pre-call survey & 50 minute discovery call with me to see if this opportunity is the right fit for you.
If this is sending excitement, fear & goosebumps through your body, that is your wise guide inside saying it is time to go for it!
If that is you, your next step is submitting <<this form here>>
On our discovery call, we will go over everything you want to create / where you are at / where you want to go AND I will explain more about this opportunity. If it’s a fit for both of us, we’ll move forward from there!✨🌸
Sending you heaps of love & always rooting you on,
ps: as Marianne Williamson eloquently puts it:
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our Light, not our Darkness, that most frightens us.
✨I am coming out of the (spiritual) closet!✨
Time stamps below:
(3:03) STAGES OF A SPIRITUAL AWAKENING✨✨
(7:48) MY DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL (YEAR FULL OF MULTIPLE EXTREME CHALLENGES)✨✨
(16:14) CONTRAST IS FOR US NOT TO US (BLESSING IN DISGUISE TO PIVOT IN LIFE)✨✨
(19:59) CREATING A NEW PARADIGM & CONSCIOUSLY CREATING AN EPIC LIFE✨✨
(21:20) WHY YOU ARE ALLOWED TO MOVE FORWARD ON YOUR DESIRES EVEN BEFORE YOU FEEL YOU ARE “HEALED ENOUGH” OR FURTHER ALONG ✨✨
(24:27) HOW WE ARE NEVER “DONE” AND FINISHED BUT ALWAYS EMERGING INTO THE NEXT EXPRESSION OF OUR TRUEST, MOST AUTHENTIC SELF✨✨
Hope you enjoy! ✨✨
PS: You are invited to the new masterclass training, sharing a step by step process to elevate your life & align with your higher calling! WATCH HERE!
In this week's FB Live inside High Vibin' Soulpreneurs, we dive deep on the most essential steps to be the BEST COACH possible to your online clients so that they can get the best results working with you!
1. Dial up your A game 30 mins prior - that means do not schedule back to back calls so that you can recharge and reset between calls (use washroom, read last week's notes, eat a snack and hydrate). Unfortunately 55 min/call coaches, who schedule back to back clients at the top of the hour, often show up late to their clients & are clearly drained.
2. Listen a LOT and practice Motivational Interviewing (have them discover the answer from within instead of shoving it down their throat).
3. Have a plan in place that will move them forward toward their goal - don’t just talk about it but figure out the next best action steps each week - break it down into manageable pieces for them.
4. Do your Self Care, consistently, and make decisions that support your happiness & joy (because this frequency is higher (process of entrainment via LOA effects your client's own vibration). Be sure to exercise frequently, eat healthy and make sleep a priority.
5. Come with tons of water (triple what you think you'll need for call).
6. Be impeccable with your word and super organized - you can’t be hot mess - that is a disservice to your client investing in you and trusting you with their transformation.
7. Take notes CONSTANTLY- make sure you know what is going on and never ever show up unprepared.
8. Email your client the agreed upon "stretches" each week after your call to keep them accountable to their goals and moving forward.
9. Follow up with them on their stretches goals & don't be scared to remind them of why they hired you (many coaches don't even think about this and then their clients end up with no results).
10. Empower them to rise but don’t twist their arms - accountability and follow through is learned THROUGH working with a coach - if you don’t allow them to step up to the plate you disempower them.
11. Lead by example - practice what you preach!!!
12. Set boundaries - they will respect you 10x more and value your time 10x more if you do (that means set hours for your work and terms written into your client contracts regarding no-show or cancellations).
13. Be a relatable human - never try to present you have it all figured out. Be kind, compassionate & honest. If you can, throw in some humour, too!