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Do you have 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 the second the person you find attractive shows interest in you? Example: You want to start that business and have taken tangible steps that require 𝘛𝘐𝘔𝘌 𝘋𝘌𝘋𝘐𝘊𝘈𝘛𝘌𝘋 to it… and you make yourself available to whatever best suits his schedule and needs. MAGNETIC VS REPELLING ENERGY IN ROMANCE.
𝐆𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭? He doesn’t start skipping his own commitments and aspirations for you.
𝘏𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘭𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘭
𝘏𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴
𝘏𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴
So how come, you stop your own endeavours, 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞, to be more available to him?
Honestly, most women/men think this action or 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐬𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 "𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞" 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤.
The truth is, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝 is the 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 (as long as they are not also co-dependent).
What if, you created space for him in your life but not in a needy way?
𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐲 (or being available to someone’s beck and call) 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲.
When Colton and I met in 2018, it is not to say I didn’t make time for him - 𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, my own purpose, my own career, my friends & my health and fitness commitments/etc.
I feel one reason we were both so energetically drawn to one another is that it was clear, neither was needing to make the other their source of:
-𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩 -𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 -𝘫𝘰𝘺 -𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 -𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦 -𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭-𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘳 -𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦
Colton knew I had created a life that was 𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐩𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐞 (𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚)
This gave us the spaciousness to really compliment one another moving forward.
𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬? Have you experienced being "𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥" away by someone's neediness in the past or maybe have you even been the repeller?
Ps. If you enjoy this video, you may wish to join the upcoming LIVE Virtual Co-Ed Workshop on October 28th that both Colton and I are hosting!! Details & how to register for free here:)