[NEW VLOG] Magnetic VS Needy/Repelling Energy in Romantic Relationships

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Do you have ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐š๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ the second the person you find attractive shows interest in you?โฃโฃ โฃโฃ Example: You want to start that business and have taken tangible steps that require ๐˜›๐˜๐˜”๐˜Œ ๐˜‹๐˜Œ๐˜‹๐˜๐˜Š๐˜ˆ๐˜›๐˜Œ๐˜‹ to itโ€ฆ and you make yourself available to whatever best suits his schedule and needs. โฃโฃ โฃโฃMAGNETIC VS REPELLING ENERGY IN ROMANCE.

๐†๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ? He doesnโ€™t start skipping his own commitments and aspirations for you. โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฌ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜ต๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญโฃโฃ

๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ดโฃโฃ

๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ดโฃโฃ โฃโฃ

So how come, you stop your own endeavours, ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ฎ๐ญ๐ž, to be more available to him? โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

Honestly, most women/men think this action or ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐ฌ๐š๐œ๐ซ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ "๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž" ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค.โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

The truth is, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ is the ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐›๐ž๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ (as long as they are not also co-dependent).โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

What if, you created space for him in your life but not in a needy way? โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

๐๐ž๐ž๐๐ฒ (or being available to someoneโ€™s beck and call) ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐š ๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ. โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

When Colton and I met in 2018, it is not to say I didnโ€™t make time for him - ๐๐”๐“ ๐ˆ ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐š๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, my own purpose, my own career, my friends & my health and fitness commitments/etc.โฃโฃ โฃโฃ

I feel one reason we were both so energetically drawn to one another is that it was clear, neither was needing to make the other their source of:โฃโฃ

-๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง-๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฉโฃโฃ -๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆโฃโฃ -๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ๐˜บโฃโฃ -๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโฃโฃ -๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆโฃโฃ -๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ-๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณโฃโฃ -๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆโฃโฃ โฃโฃ

Colton knew I had created a life that was ๐ฌ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ˆ ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ž (๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐š)

This gave us the spaciousness to really compliment one another moving forward.โฃโฃ
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๐—ช๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ? โฃโฃHave you experienced being "๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ" away by someone's neediness in the past or maybe have you even been the repeller?

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Ps. If you enjoy this video, you may wish to join the upcoming LIVE Virtual Co-Ed Workshop on October 28th that both Colton and I are hosting!!ย Details & how to register for free here:)ย 


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